{"id":9110,"date":"2018-09-13T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-09-12T20:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/secim-huququ-olmadan-az%c9%99rbaycanda-kisil%c9%99ri-m%c9%99cbur%c9%99n-evl%c9%99ndir%c9%99nd%c9%99\/"},"modified":"2021-11-05T18:45:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T14:45:27","slug":"secim-huququ-olmadan-az%c9%99rbaycanda-kisil%c9%99ri-m%c9%99cbur%c9%99n-evl%c9%99ndir%c9%99nd%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/secim-huququ-olmadan-az%c9%99rbaycanda-kisil%c9%99ri-m%c9%99cbur%c9%99n-evl%c9%99ndir%c9%99nd%c9%99\/","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00e7im h\u00fcququ olmadan \u2013 Az\u0259rbaycanda ki\u015fil\u0259ri m\u0259cbur\u0259n evl\u0259ndir\u0259nd\u0259"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130ll\u00fcstrasiyalar: Leyla Ali<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cSubay avarad\u0131r\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n

Art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 m\u0259cbur\u0259n evl\u0259ndirm\u0259k ad\u0259ti h\u00fcquq m\u00fcdafi\u0259\u00e7il\u0259rinin m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apard\u0131\u011f\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycan \u201c\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n\u201d biridir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n patriarxal c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 daha z\u0259if olan q\u0131zlar\u0131n nigaha m\u0259cbur edilm\u0259sind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Amma b\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flanlar da qurbana \u00e7evrilir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6z ist\u0259yin\u0259 r\u0259\u011fm\u0259n evl\u0259ndiril\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259ri tap\u0131b, onlar\u0131n hekay\u0259l\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 asan olmad\u0131: onlar \u00f6z v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n utan\u0131r, susur v\u0259 ikili h\u0259yat s\u00fcrm\u0259kl\u0259rind\u0259 t\u0259skinlik tap\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Az\u0259rbaycansaya\u011f\u0131 seks-turizm: \u0259r\u0259b yay\u0131<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Tinder vs Toynder: niy\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda populyar mobil tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q \u0259lav\u0259l\u0259ri geni\u015f istifad\u0259 olunmur<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0<\/a>Bak\u0131n\u0131n otell\u0259ri qonaqlardan nikah \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259si t\u0259l\u0259b edirl\u0259r \u2013 niy\u0259?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u0259lil [ad respondentin xahi\u015fi il\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirilib \u2014 red.] \u2013 bel\u0259 bir tipik hekay\u0259nin q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u201c8 n\u0259f\u0259rlik ail\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fck o\u011flu idim, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259sg\u0259rlikd\u0259n sonra Rusiyan\u0131n \u015fimal\u0131na, Uxtaya qazanc dal\u0131nca getdim. S\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc i\u015fl\u0259yirdim, ail\u0259m\u0259 pul g\u00f6nd\u0259rirdim, h\u0259m d\u0259 yerli q\u0131z\u0131 sevdim, onunla ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. 1982-ci ilin yay\u0131nda ev\u0259 getdim. Qay\u0131tma\u011f\u0131m\u0131n el\u0259 birinci g\u00fcn\u00fc valideynl\u0259rim evl\u0259nm\u0259kd\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7d\u0131lar, dedil\u0259r ki, 25 ya\u015f\u0131n var, subayl\u0131q avara\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00f6vb\u0259ti g\u00fcn qon\u015fu k\u0259nd\u0259 qohumlar\u0131ma ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 getdim. M\u0259lum oldu ki, Reyva xalam art\u0131q m\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131zg\u00f6rd\u00fc t\u0259\u015fkil edib. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ni\u015fanl\u0131m k\u0259nd ad\u0259ti il\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015fal v\u0259 uzun paltarda m\u0259n eyvanda oturark\u0259n \u201ct\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n\u201d xalam\u0131n evinin qaba\u011f\u0131ndan ke\u00e7di. \u201cXo\u015funa g\u0259ldi?\u201d \u2013 xalam x\u0259b\u0259r ald\u0131. Cavab verdim ki, \u201cq\u0131zd\u0131 da\u201d. El\u0259 h\u0259min andan s\u00f6z yay\u0131ld\u0131 ki, q\u0131zdan xo\u015fum g\u0259lib.<\/em><\/p>\n

Q\u0131za el\u00e7i g\u00f6nd\u0259rdil\u0259r, m\u0259ni d\u0259 fakt qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qoydular: evl\u0259nm\u0259s\u0259n, onu da biyab\u0131r ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, bizi d\u0259.<\/em><\/p>\n

Valideynin s\u00f6z\u00fc \u201cag\u0131rd\u0131\u201d: \u0259slind\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmamal\u0131yd\u0131m, amma bacarmad\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n

El\u00e7ilikd\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq, toya q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00fct\u00fcn proses he\u00e7 bir h\u0259ft\u0259 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259di. Yax\u0131nlardan he\u00e7 kim m\u0259ni d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259di, ham\u0131 anam\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tutdu. Toy g\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli s\u0259hv\u0259 yol vermi\u015f\u0259m fikri il\u0259 yuxudan oyand\u0131m. M\u0259zuniyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259ldiyim paltarda da evl\u0259ndim.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u201cXalan q\u0131z\u0131 il\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259s\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 benzin t\u00f6k\u00fcb, yand\u0131racam\u201d \u2013 o\u011flunun \u201cd\u00fczg\u00fcn\u201d g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n narahat olan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 analardan bu c\u00fcr b\u0259yanatlar\u0131 e\u015fitm\u0259k olar <\/em><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/p>\n

Sonra da h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m Solmaz\u0131 Uxtaya apard\u0131m, sevgilim b\u00fct\u00fcn ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rsiziydi. Ona x\u0259b\u0259r \u00e7atanda ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7d\u00fc.<\/em><\/p>\n

Solmaz rus dilini bilmirdi, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 10 il q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259r\u0259k, evd\u0259n bay\u0131ra \u00e7\u0131xmad\u0131. Onu harasa i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m, amma \u00f6z\u00fc i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259mirdi.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sonra da Solmaz\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131 Bak\u0131ya apard\u0131m. Bo\u015fanma\u011f\u0131m\u0131z 20 il \u00e7\u0259kdi: ax\u0131ra q\u0259d\u0259r bo\u015fanmaq ist\u0259mirdi. 2004-d\u0259n 2014-d\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r Bak\u0131da olmad\u0131m, g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259mi bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ay qald\u0131m, anam \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox pis hiss edirdi.<\/em><\/p>\n

Onunla daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m, bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t evliliyimd\u0259n d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. Ona d\u0259dim ki, yolda\u015f\u0131mdan iyr\u0259nirdim, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131ndan iyr\u0259nirdim, anam n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r b\u0259db\u0259xt oldu\u011fumu anlad\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

Anam r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259n sonra Solmaz n\u0259hay\u0259t bo\u015fanma\u011fa raz\u0131l\u0131q verdi. 57 ya\u015f\u0131mda 30 il arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131ma qovu\u015fdum. Yenid\u0259n sevdiyim qad\u0131n\u0131 tapd\u0131m, indi d\u0259 onunla v\u0259 onun m\u0259nim b\u0259db\u0259xt evliliyimd\u0259n evv\u0259l d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdiyi o\u011flumuzla birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

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