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H\u0259r il G\u00fcrc\u00fcstanda onlarla azya\u015fl\u0131, \u0259sas\u0259n d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bli q\u0131z qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Q\u0131z\u0131 zorla tutub ma\u015f\u0131na otuzdurur, sonra da onu o\u011furlayan adama \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r. \u201cAil\u0259 qurmaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma\u201d bu g\u00fcn Kvemo Kartli regionunda daha \u00e7ox yay\u0131l\u0131b. Ad\u0259t\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f q\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6z ail\u0259si d\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259mir, onu ev\u0259 qaytarma\u011f\u0131 \u201cr\u00fcsvay\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q\u201d \u00a0hesab edir. Qa\u00e7\u0131q\u0131lan q\u0131zlar\u0131n qohumlar\u0131, qon\u015fular\u0131, icmalar\u0131ndak\u0131 a\u011fsaqqallar q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259sini \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259 hesab edir, d\u00f6vl\u0259t is\u0259 t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u00e7\u00fc il\u0259 tam qanuni sazi\u015f ba\u011flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a014 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0T\u00fcrkiy\u0259: qad\u0131nlar\u0131n q\u0259tli v\u0259 onlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q art\u0131r<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0Zorlanmadan sonra h\u0259yat. 22 ya\u015fl\u0131 Salome Zandukelinin h\u0259yat hekay\u0259si<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Z\u0259rif\u0259<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n

2017-ci il aprelin 28-d\u0259 on ikinci sinif \u015fagirdi Z\u0259rif\u0259 N. Marneuli rayonunun Takalo k\u0259ndind\u0259 d\u00fcz m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259n ondan on ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck olan ki\u015fi t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b. Do\u011fmalar\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 iki g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 axtar\u0131blar, inand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131blar ki, Z\u0259rif\u0259nin ail\u0259 qurmaq fikri olmay\u0131b v\u0259 onu geri qaytarma\u011f\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b edibl\u0259r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Z\u0259rif\u0259y\u0259 g\u00fcrc\u00fc dilini t\u0259dris ed\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259si Maka Mente\u015fa\u015fvili d\u0259 bunu bildirirdi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cZ\u0259rif\u0259 f\u0259al q\u0131zd\u0131, t\u0259hsilini universitetd\u0259 davam etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirdi\u201d, – m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 deyir. – \u201cBiz m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 erk\u0259n evlilik problemini m\u00fczakir\u0259 edirdik, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onun bu haqda fikrini bilir\u0259m\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amma n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r G\u00fcrc\u00fcstanda art\u0131q x\u0131rda detallar\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259d\u0259n ke\u00e7irilmi\u015f ssenari \u00fczr\u0259 inki\u015faf el\u0259di. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131ranla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b, raz\u0131l\u0131\u011fa g\u0259ldil\u0259r ki, onlar\u0131n azya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 bu adam\u0131n arvad\u0131 olsun. Faktla ba\u011fl\u0131 cinay\u0259t i\u015fi qald\u0131ran rayon prokurorlu\u011fu q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259qsirl\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlara raz\u0131 oldu, b\u00fct\u00fcn v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti diqq\u0259t\u0259 al\u0131b, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u201cb\u0259yl\u0259\u201d prosessual sazi\u015f ba\u011flamaq t\u0259klifi il\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdi. T\u0259qsirl\u0259ndiril\u0259n b\u00fcdc\u0259y\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259bl\u0259\u011fd\u0259 c\u0259rim\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259yib, azadl\u0131\u011fa burax\u0131ld\u0131. Z\u0259rif\u0259 is\u0259 \u0259rli qad\u0131n oldu, baxmayaraq ki, he\u00e7 kim onun raz\u0131 olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0259ndd\u0259 bu hadis\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7ox t\u0259bii bax\u0131rlar. Burada ail\u0259nin ilkin reaksiyas\u0131 v\u0259 sonradan valideynl\u0259rin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131 he\u00e7 kimi t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndirmir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu k\u0259ndin v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259 Kvemo Kartli regionunun \u0259halisinin \u0259sas hiss\u0259si etnik az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lardan ibar\u0259tdir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yerli sakinl\u0259r deyirl\u0259r ki, q\u0131zlar\u0131n evlilik m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 milli \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rin bir hiss\u0259sidir. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin bu c\u00fcr qoyulu\u015fu G\u00fcrc\u00fcstan hakimiyy\u0259tin\u0259 d\u0259 problem\u0259 g\u00f6z yumma\u011fa imkan verir. Yerli v\u0259 m\u0259rk\u0259zi hakimiyy\u0259t yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan q\u0131zlara qar\u015f\u0131 t\u00f6r\u0259dil\u0259n y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 cinay\u0259t\u0259 barmaqaras\u0131 bax\u0131r, amma eyni zamanda dig\u0259r qanunlar\u0131n ke\u015fiyind\u0259 ay\u0131q-say\u0131q dayan\u0131r. Kvemo Kartli regionunun ucqar da\u011fl\u0131q \u0259razi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 (harada ki, qanunun aliliyini qoruma\u011f\u0131n \u00e7\u0259tin oldu\u011funu co\u011frafi amill\u0259rl\u0259 izah etm\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259hd g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn ola bil\u0259rdi) diqq\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131rmaq yerin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259rdi. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu hadis\u0259l\u0259r Tbilisinin c\u0259mi q\u0131rx be\u015f kilometrliyind\u0259 ba\u015f verib. Halbuki G\u00fcrc\u00fcstan\u0131n qalan regionlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 bu \u201c\u0259n\u0259n\u0259\u201d tamam aradan qald\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b.<\/span><\/p>\n

Burada \u2013 Tbilisinin c\u0259mi 45 kilometrliyind\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 q\u0131z qa\u00e7\u0131rmaq milli \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 hesab edilir. Foto: David Pipia, JAMnews\u00a0<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/p>\n

Nahid\u0259<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n

Nahid\u0259 Abdullayevan\u0131n 30 ya\u015f\u0131 var. Marneuli rayonunun Kutlyari k\u0259ndind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Onu qon\u015fusu qa\u00e7\u0131randa c\u0259mi 17 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cH\u0259min g\u00fcn son z\u0259ngimiz idi, el\u0259 sevinirdim ki. Tbilisiy\u0259 oxuma\u011fa ged\u0259c\u0259yim, sonra da polisd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m haqda x\u0259yallar qururdum. Atam h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 harasa ail\u0259d\u0259n uza\u011fa getm\u0259yim\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 idi, amma onu fikrind\u0259n d\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259 bilmi\u015fdim. H\u0259min g\u00fcn valideynl\u0259rim fermaya getmi\u015fdi, evd\u0259 balaca qarda\u015f\u0131mla birlikd\u0259 qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. Bu vaxt qon\u015fu g\u0259ldi, su ist\u0259di. \u00c7\u0131x\u0131b su g\u0259tirm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 o\u011flan m\u0259ni tutub ma\u015f\u0131na basd\u0131lar\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn Nahid\u0259 iki u\u015faq anas\u0131d\u0131r, o\u011flanlar\u0131n\u0131n 11 v\u0259 9 ya\u015f\u0131 var .\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, t\u0259hsilini davam etdir\u0259 bilm\u0259yib, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259n c\u0259mi bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 harasa \u00e7\u0131xa bilib.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin idi, amma on \u00fc\u00e7 il \u0259rzind\u0259 bel\u0259 reall\u0131\u011fa da al\u0131\u015fa bilirs\u0259n. S\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259n ax\u015fama q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259yir\u0259m, h\u0259r yan\u0131m a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131r. Ail\u0259miz harasa ged\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259ni dustaq kimi evd\u0259 qoyurlar, darvazan\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259n yek\u0259 q\u0131f\u0131lla kilidl\u0259yirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kvemo Kartlid\u0259n olan nadir q\u0131z erk\u0259n evliliyin \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda Nahid\u0259ninki kimi bir h\u0259yat oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259z. Buna baxmayaraq, dem\u0259k olar ki b\u00fct\u00fcn qa\u00e7\u0131q\u0131lma qurbanlar\u0131 evliliy\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nahid\u0259 deyir ki, qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f q\u0131z \u201cbiab\u0131r olmu\u015f\u201d say\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 art\u0131q onunla he\u00e7 kim evl\u0259nm\u0259z.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGeri qaytar\u0131lan q\u0131z\u0131 qon\u015fular h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 barmaqla g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k, dey\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r ki, art\u0131q \u201ckorlan\u0131b\u201d. Adamlara maraql\u0131 deyil ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n n\u0259s\u0259 olub, ya yox [\u201cb\u0259yl\u0259\u201d qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f q\u0131z aras\u0131nda \u2013 redaksiya qeydi]. He\u00e7 kim evind\u0259 bel\u0259 bir q\u0131z ist\u0259m\u0259z, o da qala ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 olsun. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131zlar onlar\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131ran adam\u0131n yan\u0131nda qal\u0131r\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ayg\u00fcn<\/span><\/h3>\n

15 ya\u00e7l\u0131 Ayg\u00fcn M\u0259mm\u0259dova (ad, soyad d\u0259yi\u015fdirilib) art\u0131q \u201ch\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131\u201dd\u0131r, \u00f6z xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 haqda h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. 2016-c\u0131 ilin sentyabr\u0131nda Ayg\u00fcn qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131landa onun h\u0259l\u0259 14 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. 15 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 o, art\u0131q yeni ail\u0259si il\u0259 qeyd edib. Ayg\u00fcn deyir ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sevir. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, q\u0131z h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 h\u0259r ehtimala qar\u015f\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma\u011fa haz\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 bunda pis he\u00e7 n\u0259 yoxdur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Erk\u0259n evlilikd\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 bir problem g\u00f6rm\u00fcr: \u201cBizd\u0259 bel\u0259dir – \u0259g\u0259r erk\u0259n ya\u015flarda ail\u0259 qurmasan, sonra s\u0259ni he\u00e7 kim almayacaq\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amma bu hekay\u0259d\u0259 bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 var \u2013 Ayg\u00fcn \u00f6z g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131rd\u0131 v\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n az olmas\u0131na baxmayaraq, qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma an\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r onu art\u0131q sevirdi d\u0259. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u018frim m\u0259ni ona g\u00f6r\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131 ki, ail\u0259sinin art\u0131q toy x\u0259rcl\u0259rind\u0259n can\u0131 qurtars\u0131n\u201d, – o izah edir. Ayg\u00fcn s\u0259kkizinci sinifd\u0259n sonra m\u0259kt\u0259bi t\u0259rk edib v\u0259 t\u0259hsilini davam etdirm\u0259k niyy\u0259tind\u0259 deyil \u2013 hesab edir ki, ail\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259hsil bir arada \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir v\u0259 onun \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259si yax\u015f\u0131 ana v\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 arvad olmaqd\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ayg\u00fcn\u00fcn t\u0259hsil v\u0259 ail\u0259nin bir araya s\u0131\u011fmamas\u0131 haqda fikrini y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 G\u00fcrc\u00fcstan m\u0259kt\u0259blisi b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. R\u0259smi statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, ancaq 2015-ci ild\u0259 576 \u015fagird ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olaraq t\u0259hsili burax\u0131b. Bir \u00e7ox v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f c\u0259miyy\u0259ti f\u0259allar\u0131 bu statistikan\u0131n d\u0259qiq olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr v\u0259 ehtimal edirl\u0259r ki, real g\u00f6st\u0259rici r\u0259smi a\u00e7\u0131qlanandan qat-qat \u00e7oxdur.<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcnay<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n

G\u00fcnay bildirir ki, qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bil\u0259r. Foto: David Pipia, JAMnews\u00a0<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/p>\n

G\u00fcnay Bayramovan\u0131 20 ya\u015f\u0131 olanda qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131blar. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u0259rini o, ilk d\u0259f\u0259 yax\u0131ndan ni\u015fan g\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcb, buna q\u0259d\u0259r onu ancaq \u00fczd\u0259n tan\u0131y\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. G\u00fcnay\u0131 \u0259r\u0259 verm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131 “el\u00e7ilik” adalanan m\u0259rasimd\u0259 q\u0259bul edilib – bu zaman potensial b\u0259yin qohumlar\u0131 \u00a0“q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 o\u011flumuza almaq ist\u0259yirik” t\u0259klifi il\u0259 g\u0259linin evin\u0259 g\u0259lirl\u0259r. G\u00fcnay\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri raz\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 bildiribl\u0259r, odur ki, qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma s\u0259b\u0259bi q\u0131z\u0131 ist\u0259m\u0259diyi bir \u015fey\u0259 m\u0259cbur etm\u0259k niyy\u0259ti olmay\u0131b, sad\u0259c\u0259 bu yolla toy m\u0259rasiminin x\u0259rcl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259na\u0259t edibl\u0259r. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBizim o\u011flanlar q\u0131z qa\u00e7\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131rlar\u201d, – G\u00fcnay g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k deyir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cQa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131landan sonra ev\u0259 qay\u0131tmaq ist\u0259dim, amma bizd\u0259 bel\u0259 ad\u0259t yoxdur. Qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 d\u00f6zm\u0259lidir, ba\u015fqa \u00e7ar\u0259 yoxdur. M\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 d\u00f6zd\u00fcm, indi h\u0259yat\u0131mda h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n