{"id":4125,"date":"2016-11-02T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-11-02T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/14-yasinda-%c9%99r%c9%99-getm%c9%99k\/"},"modified":"2020-03-18T10:54:36","modified_gmt":"2020-03-18T10:54:36","slug":"14-yasinda-%c9%99r%c9%99-getm%c9%99k","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/14-yasinda-%c9%99r%c9%99-getm%c9%99k\/","title":{"rendered":"14 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k"},"content":{"rendered":"

On d\u00f6rd ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u0259lin Az\u0259rbaycan regionlar\u0131nda adi hald\u0131r, paytaxtda is\u0259 buna nadir hallarda rast g\u0259linir. Bu, qanunidirmi? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 yox, Az\u0259rbaycanda nikaha girm\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131 18 ya\u015fd\u0131r. Hans\u0131sa m\u00fcst\u0259sna hallarda bu h\u0259dd bir ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmamaq \u015f\u0259rtiyl\u0259 azald\u0131la bil\u0259r.
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\nValideynl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 evl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 nec\u0259 mane olmaq olar?
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\nErk\u0259n nikahlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 h\u0259yat hekay\u0259l\u0259rini e\u015fitm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u201cT\u0259miz d\u00fcnya ictimai birliyinin n\u0259zdind\u0259 olan s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259ldik. Burada getm\u0259y\u0259 yeri olmayan qad\u0131nlara h\u00fcquqi v\u0259 psixoloji d\u0259st\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ayt\u0259n. Birm\u0259nal\u0131 olmayan hekay\u0259<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131m\u0131z Ayt\u0259nin 21 ya\u015f\u0131 var. Qara\u015f\u0131n, ev paltar\u0131nda olan bu q\u0131z s\u0131x\u0131lsa da s\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259n qa\u00e7m\u0131r. \u015e\u0259kil \u00e7\u0259kdirm\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259 imtina etmir, sad\u0259c\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rdar edir ki, \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259sin.
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\nAyt\u0259n s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa bu yax\u0131nlarda g\u0259lib. Art\u0131q iki u\u011fursuz ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 olub, \u00f6vlad\u0131 var.
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\n\u201cG\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131q, ail\u0259d\u0259 yeddi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131q. Bir b\u00f6y\u00fck qarda\u015f\u0131m v\u0259 alt\u0131 q\u0131z.
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\nAnas\u0131 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 Ayt\u0259nin 11 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. Atas\u0131 ev\u0259 anal\u0131q g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259 Ayt\u0259n art\u0131q orta m\u0259kt\u0259bin yuxar\u0131 sinif \u015fagirdi idi. Ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259k u\u015faq qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131 \u2013 qarda\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 bac\u0131lar\u0131 art\u0131q \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rini qurmu\u015fdular. \u201cAnal\u0131\u011f\u0131mla yola getmirdik, m\u0259ni atama q\u0131sqan\u0131rd\u0131, onunla normal \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olma\u011fa imkan vermirdi, – q\u0131z dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.
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\n16 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atandan sonra bac\u0131lar\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259sik Ayt\u0259n\u0259 \u0259r axtarma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131. \u201cM\u0259kt\u0259bi bitirdim, t\u0259hsilimi davam etdirm\u0259yi \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirdim. Ail\u0259mizd\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn u\u015faqlar yax\u015f\u0131 oxuyub. Amma atam dedi: \u201cT\u0259hsil hara, q\u0131z hara. Atam\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259 ali t\u0259hsili yoxdur, adi f\u0259hl\u0259dir, – Ayt\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.
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\nAyt\u0259ni \u201cm\u00fcnasib o\u011flana \u0259r\u0259 verdil\u0259r; bac\u0131lar\u0131 soraqla\u015f\u0131b, \u00f6yr\u0259nib bel\u0259 q\u0259rara g\u0259ldil\u0259r ki, o\u011flan ki\u00e7ik bac\u0131lar\u0131na yara\u015f\u0131r. O, Ayt\u0259nd\u0259n 12 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck idi, y\u0259ni o vaxt 28 ya\u015f\u0131 var\u0131yd\u0131. \u201c\u018fyya\u015f \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131, – q\u0131z xat\u0131rlay\u0131r, – d\u00f6y\u00fcrd\u00fc m\u0259ni, \u0259zab verirdi. Ancaq hu\u015fumu itir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u0259lini m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kirdi. B\u0259z\u0259n q\u0131\u015fda \u0259ynimi soyundurub, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b, b\u00fct\u00fcn gec\u0259ni m\u0259ni orada saxlay\u0131rd\u0131. Ya da m\u0259cbur edirdi ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn gec\u0259ni yatmay\u0131b, onun ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131 massaj edim.
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\n\u00dc\u00e7 ay sonra Ayt\u0259n hamil\u0259 qal\u0131r; amma q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si bel\u0259 evd\u0259ki v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259di. \u201c\u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 o\u011flan yox, q\u0131z\u0131n do\u011fulmas\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259timi daha da a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131, – Ayt\u0259n deyir, – \u0259rimin valideynl\u0259ri d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 pis davran\u0131rd\u0131lar, m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etmirdil\u0259r. H\u0259tta o, m\u0259ni d\u00f6y\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 deyirdil\u0259r: \u201cG\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n, onu bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 s\u0259n salm\u0131san!
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\nU\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bir ya\u015f\u0131 tamam olanda Ayt\u0259n d\u00f6zm\u0259yib, ata evin\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r. He\u00e7 bir r\u0259smi bo\u015fanma olmad\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcnki onun n\u0259inki nikah haqq\u0131nda \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259si, he\u00e7 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t v\u0259siq\u0259si d\u0259 yoxuydu.
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\nM\u0259hz buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlar haqq\u0131nda d\u0259qiq statistik m\u0259lumatlar yoxdur, onlar\u0131 qeydiyyata alm\u0131rlar. \u201cT\u0259miz d\u00fcnya ictimai birliyinin s\u0259dri Mehriban Zeynalovan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, r\u0259smi r\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259ri axtarmaq m\u0259nas\u0131zd\u0131r: \u201cErk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n statistikas\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.
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\nNikaha m\u0259cbur etm\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 2-3 min manat h\u0259cmind\u0259 c\u0259rim\u0259 v\u0259 ya iki ay m\u00fcdd\u0259tin\u0259 azadl\u0131qdan m\u0259hrum etm\u0259 c\u0259zas\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. B\u0259y v\u0259 g\u0259lin yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmay\u0131blarsa, c\u0259rim\u0259 3-4 min manata, h\u0259bs is\u0259 4 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131r.
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\nStatistika Komit\u0259sinin r\u0259smi m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, 2014-c\u00fc ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda qeydiyyata al\u0131nan 479 nikahda g\u0259lin 18 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmay\u0131b. H\u0259min statistika \u00fczr\u0259 \u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k h\u0259dd 2008-ci ild\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunub \u2013 5544 nikah. Bu da nikah\u0131n 17 ya\u015fl\u0131lar aras\u0131nda v\u0259 qohumlar\u0131n xahi\u015fi il\u0259 ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 hallard\u0131r.
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\nB\u00fct\u00fcn dig\u0259r hallar\u0131 izl\u0259m\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki regionlarda \u0259ks\u0259r vaxtlarda s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ox s\u0259hl\u0259nkar yana\u015f\u0131rlar: u\u015faqlar m\u0259kt\u0259b ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atana q\u0259d\u0259r metrika v\u0259 pasportsuz ya\u015faya bilir, nikah haqq\u0131nda \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259 \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 is\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn qohumlar\u0131n xat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259mt\u0259raql\u0131 toy kifay\u0259t edir. \u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 halda k\u0259bin ka\u011f\u0131z\u0131 olur.
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\nBuna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 Ayt\u0259nin bo\u015fanmas\u0131na ehtiyac olmad\u0131. \u201cAtam \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259, hardasa iki ay m\u0259ni dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131rmad\u0131, sonra dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131, – Ayt\u0259n bu haqda adi hal kimi dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u2013 El\u0259 onda da m\u0259n\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 \u0259r axtarma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131.
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\nT\u0259z\u0259 \u0259r an\u0131ndaca, \u00e7\u0259p\u0259rin o tay\u0131nda tap\u0131ld\u0131, bu onun xalas\u0131 o\u011flu idi. Amma onunla da h\u0259yat al\u0131nmad\u0131: \u201cQon\u015fular qeyb\u0259t edirdil\u0259r ki, evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131ram, halbuki he\u00e7 yer\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131rd\u0131m; bu, \u0259rimin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc evliliyi olsa da yen\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 deyirdi: \u201cNec\u0259 s\u0259ni s\u0131r\u0131d\u0131lar m\u0259n\u0259! Bac\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131na gedib (ancaq bir bac\u0131mla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t saxlay\u0131ram), \u015fikay\u0259t edirdim, deyirdim: \u201cDaha bacarm\u0131ram!, amma he\u00e7 kim m\u0259ni ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrd\u00fc, deyirdil\u0259r ki, d\u00f6zm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r, bu ail\u0259dir, neyn\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n.
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\nAyt\u0259ns\u0259 d\u00f6z\u0259 bilm\u0259di. Tan\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan paytaxtda qad\u0131nlara yard\u0131m ed\u0259n t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n oldu\u011funu \u00f6yr\u0259nib, avtobusa minir v\u0259 Bak\u0131ya g\u0259lir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n avtobusda h\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas xan\u0131mla tan\u0131\u015f olur. Bak\u0131ya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra o, Ayt\u0259ni Bin\u0259q\u0259di rayon polis idar\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirir, oradan da onu s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r.
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\nAyt\u0259nin b\u0259xti onunla eyni v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n b\u0259xtind\u0259n daha \u00e7ox g\u0259tirdi: o orta m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitirib v\u0259 h\u0259yata daha ay\u0131q g\u00f6zl\u0259 bax\u0131r. \u201cEv\u0259 qay\u0131tmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m, bilir\u0259m ki, q\u0259bul ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r m\u0259ni, amma yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, – o deyir, – m\u0259ns\u0259 bunu ist\u0259mir\u0259m. \u0130\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, pul qazanmaq v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131 doland\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m.
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\nH\u0259l\u0259 ki, bu hekay\u0259nin n\u0259 il\u0259 bit\u0259c\u0259yi m\u0259lum deyil. Qaydalara g\u00f6r\u0259, s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259ri qad\u0131n\u0131n qohumlar\u0131 v\u0259 ail\u0259si il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 qurmal\u0131, sosial v\u0259 psixoloji i\u015f aparmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Amma son q\u0259rar\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc verir. B\u0259z\u0259n bu k\u00f6m\u0259k edir: sosial xidm\u0259t i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rinin dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlardan birinin \u0259ri il\u0259 raz\u0131l\u0131\u011fa g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu \u2013 o, psixoloqun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc e\u015fidib, m\u0259nzil kiray\u0259 etdi v\u0259 onlar xan\u0131m\u0131 il\u0259 qohumlarla davan\u0131 k\u0259sm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu m\u0259nzil\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7d\u00fcl\u0259r.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u0259ran\u0259. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt sonluqla bitm\u0259y\u0259n hekay\u0259<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Bundan \u0259vv\u0259lki q\u0259hr\u0259mandan f\u0259rqli olaraq, T\u0259ran\u0259 he\u00e7 bir t\u0259hsil almay\u0131b. S\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131nda t\u0259kc\u0259 u\u015faqlar deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cAz\u0259rbaycan u\u015faqlar\u0131 Qeyri-H\u00f6kum\u0259t T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259nin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, T\u0259ran\u0259 \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 yaz\u0131b-oxuma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131rd\u0131. 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 gedib. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 tam da xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u00fc – \u0259ri narkoman \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131, onu d\u00f6y\u00fcr v\u0259 t\u0259hqir edirdi.
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\nS\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq bar\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131z K\u0259mal\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n televiziyada \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 zaman\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb, s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259lir. \u201cU\u015faqlar h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n h\u00fcrk\u00fcr, insanlardan qorxurdular, onlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmurdu, – K\u0259mal\u0259 xan\u0131m dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, – 4 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan o\u011flan \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131rd\u0131, q\u0131z ancaq q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131rd\u0131. Psixoloqlar\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 sosial i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rimiz onlarla b\u00f6y\u00fck i\u015f apard\u0131lar, u\u015faqlar he\u00e7 olmasa adekvat oldu, art\u0131q adamlardan h\u00fcrkm\u00fcrd\u00fcl\u0259r, inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131lar.
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\nT\u0259ran\u0259 regiondan g\u0259lib, bu da o dem\u0259kdir ki, nikah \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259si yoxdur. Bu azm\u0131\u015f kimi, o \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 ev \u015f\u0259raitind\u0259 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib (regionlarda, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 k\u0259nd yerl\u0259rind\u0259 bu adi hald\u0131r), dem\u0259li he\u00e7 bir s\u0259n\u0259d yoxdur.
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\n\u201cAd\u0259t\u0259n bel\u0259 hallarda oldu\u011fu kimi, u\u015faqlara s\u0259n\u0259d d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131q, – K\u0259mal\u0259 xan\u0131m dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, – amma niy\u0259s\u0259 qad\u0131n buna qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131. Atal\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u0259sdiq edilm\u0259si v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t v\u0259siq\u0259l\u0259rinin haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259yi planla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131q. Amma T\u0259ran\u0259ni n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r dil\u0259 tutsaq da, fikrini d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilm\u0259dik. O, s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda bir il\u0259 yax\u0131n qald\u0131; b\u00fct\u00fcn bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 yegan\u0259 u\u011furumuz u\u015faqlarla apar\u0131lan i\u015fi hesab ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik.
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\nT\u0259ran\u0259 ail\u0259sin\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131. Qalmaqallar v\u0259 d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259 hallar\u0131 davam etdi. S\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259ri indiy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 onunla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlay\u0131r. Sonradan o yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259rind\u0259n ayr\u0131ld\u0131, i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ldi, u\u015faqlar\u0131na baxmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn day\u0259 tutdu. Amma t\u0259hsil v\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259ll olunmam\u0131\u015f qal\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f6rd sinif<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cAz\u0259rbaycan u\u015faqlar\u0131 QHT-n\u0131n s\u0259dri K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259 deyir ki, i\u015find\u0259 tez-tez erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qurbanlar\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda bu, regionlardan olanlard\u0131r v\u0259 t\u0259sdiq edir ki, bu c\u00fcr hallarda ad\u0259t\u0259n nikah v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259sini t\u0259sdiq ed\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259r olur. Bu zaman bo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 da qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259r yaran\u0131r: \u201cBo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 qad\u0131nlar n\u0259 \u0259mlak, n\u0259 d\u0259 aliment t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bo\u015fanma, daha do\u011frusu, ayr\u0131lma hallar\u0131 is\u0259 nadir hal deyil.
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\nAmma bu, h\u00fcquqi problemdir. H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq olan g\u0259nc qad\u0131ndan \u0259r evind\u0259n qay\u0131tmaqla onlar\u0131 biab\u0131r etdiyini hesab ed\u0259n ail\u0259sinin imtina etm\u0259si daha a\u011f\u0131r hald\u0131r. Qad\u0131n t\u0259k qal\u0131r; n\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi, n\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259hsil ala bilm\u0259diyini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq perspektivi yoxdur. Bu qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti ya ancaq ibtidai t\u0259hsil al\u0131b, y\u0259ni m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 4 il oxuyub, ya da \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 halda 8-ci sinfi bitirib. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u018fks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar bu c\u00fcr hallarda pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 qur\u015fan\u0131r, hans\u0131sa kriminal qruplara qo\u015fulurlar. K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259 deyir ki, bu zaman \u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlisi odur ki, qad\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qoyub ged\u0259 bil\u0259r. Nikah\u0131n \u0259slind\u0259 qeyri-qanuni oldu\u011funu, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259rinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq, onu he\u00e7 bir m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259yin etm\u0259k, u\u015faq ba\u011f\u00e7as\u0131 v\u0259 ya m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmur.
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\nErk\u0259n nikahlar v\u0259 onlar\u0131n f\u0259sadlar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259nin \u0259sas yolu maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259dir, K\u0259mal\u0259 xan\u0131m bel\u0259 hesab edir. \u201cD\u00f6vl\u0259t xidm\u0259tl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u0259trafl\u0131 monitorinq ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir, bu c\u00fcr ail\u0259l\u0259r sosial i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259r v\u0259 icra hakimiyy\u0259ti orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n daimi n\u0259zar\u0259ti alt\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r.
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\nAmma \u0259n \u0259sas problem t\u0259kc\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t n\u0259zar\u0259tinin olmamas\u0131nda deyil. \u201c\u018fn pis hal ictimai q\u0131na\u011f\u0131n olmamas\u0131d\u0131r, – K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259 deyir. \u2013 \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz q\u0131zlar\u0131n erk\u0259n \u0259r\u0259 verildiyi az ail\u0259 tan\u0131y\u0131r\u0131q? Bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 h\u0259tta h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 g\u0259linin 14-15 ya\u015f\u0131 yenic\u0259 tamam oldu\u011fu toylara gedir. Mentalitetimiz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ba\u015fqa ail\u0259nin i\u015fin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmaq olmaz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zeyn\u0259b. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt sonluqlu hekay\u0259<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n, K\u0259mal\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n statistikas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131 sonluqlu hekay\u0259l\u0259rin say\u0131 xeyli daha \u00e7oxdur. Zeyn\u0259bin hekay\u0259si kimi. \u018frinin ail\u0259si 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n bu q\u0131z\u0131 q\u0259bul etmirdi. \u018fri u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirdi, yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, aliment \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259 olunan \u0259n geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f arqumentdir.
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\nM\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259k, atal\u0131\u011f\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn test etm\u0259k, toy \u015f\u0259kill\u0259ri v\u0259 video kimi s\u00fcbutlar g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, qon\u015fular\u0131n ifad\u0259l\u0259rini almaq laz\u0131m oldu. Yax\u015f\u0131 ki, qanunvericilik r\u0259smi nikah olmadan da atal\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u00fcbuta yetirilm\u0259si \u0259sas\u0131nda aliment t\u0259yin etm\u0259k imkan\u0131 verir.
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\nZeyn\u0259b aliment ald\u0131; s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqdan onu q\u0259nnad\u00e7\u0131 kurslar\u0131na g\u00f6nd\u0259rdil\u0259r, u\u011furla kurslar\u0131 bitirdi v\u0259 indi \u015firniyyat istehsal ed\u0259n \u015firk\u0259td\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259. Pis sonluqlu hekay\u0259<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 Sabirabadda, adi f\u0259hl\u0259 ail\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb, ail\u0259d\u0259 ondan ba\u015fqa daha \u00fc\u00e7 u\u015faq var\u0131yd\u0131. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 9 il oxudu, sonra da anas\u0131na ev i\u015fl\u0259rind\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edirdi. 17 ya\u015f\u0131 tamam olanda Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259ni qa\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131lar. Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 o\u011flanla tan\u0131\u015f idi, bu da o\u011flana v\u0259 qohumlar\u0131na dem\u0259y\u0259 imkan verdi ki, q\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 naraz\u0131 deyildi. Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259nin qohumlar\u0131 da guya polis \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b, onu xilas etm\u0259y\u0259 getdil\u0259r, amma o\u011flan\u0131n qohumlar\u0131 il\u0259 apar\u0131lan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlardan sonra onu \u0259r\u0259 getmi\u015f sayd\u0131lar.
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\nPatriarxal \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131n \u201cnikahda d\u00f6zm\u0259lidirs\u0259, Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 xeyli d\u00f6zd\u00fc, h\u0259tta bir-birinin ard\u0131nca iki q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdi. \u018frind\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 boyu \u015fikay\u0259t edirdi: o, i\u00e7ir, onu d\u00f6y\u00fcr v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 da pul qazanm\u0131rd\u0131, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 dem\u0259k olar ki, ac qal\u0131rd\u0131lar.
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\nN\u0259hay\u0259t d\u00f6zm\u0259yib, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb, ata evin\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r. Ata-anas\u0131 onu geri q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q sayd\u0131lar. Daha do\u011frusu, ona dedil\u0259r: \u201c\u0130ki u\u015faqla kim\u0259 laz\u0131msan, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n\u0131 yenid\u0259n \u0259r\u0259 verm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil, beynimizi t\u00f6km\u0259 v\u0259 \u0259rinin yan\u0131na qay\u0131t. Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 bac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda qoyub, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc K\u00fcr \u00e7ay\u0131na atd\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u0259b\u0259b v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259ri \u00f6z yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 evl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 n\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir? \u00dczd\u0259 olmayan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri nikaha q\u0259d\u0259r seks\u0259 olan qada\u011fad\u0131r. Q\u0131z\u0131n 14-15 ya\u015f\u0131 varsa, dem\u0259li fikrind\u0259 bel\u0259 pis he\u00e7 n\u0259 etm\u0259yib.
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\nO\u011flan\u0131n ail\u0259si bel\u0259 bir q\u0131z\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259, eyni zamanda da bir az onu \u00f6z ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011fun \u201ct\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r. Q\u0131z ail\u0259si is\u0259 qorxur ki, 20 ya\u015f\u0131 tamam olandan sonra Allah el\u0259m\u0259mi\u015f, qon\u015fular q\u0131z\u0131n qeyb\u0259tini ed\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 onu \u201ckim\u0259s\u0259 s\u0131r\u0131maq daha \u00e7\u0259tin olacaq.
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\n\u0130kinci s\u0259b\u0259b art\u0131q a\u011f\u0131zdan yaxa qurtarmaq v\u0259 q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n atmaqd\u0131r. Qad\u0131n ad\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259l atas\u0131n\u0131n, sonra da \u0259rinin \u00f6hd\u0259\u00e7iliyind\u0259 olursa (t\u0259hsil v\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259tsiz nec\u0259 ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr ola bil\u0259r ki?), q\u0131z atas\u0131 \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259 olanlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131 minimuma endirm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sir.
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\nDaha bir s\u0259b\u0259b yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan v\u0259 ya q\u0131za yiy\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan tap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f qaba\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259yidir.
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\nN\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r orta \u0259srl\u0259rin sa\u011flam olmayan qal\u0131qlar, cahillik v\u0259 primitiv \u201c\u0259xlaqla qad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi diskriminasiyas\u0131 il ba\u011fl\u0131 olur.
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\nBu c\u00fcr nikah\u0131n ayr\u0131ca bir ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u0259sadlar\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259, bu h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q tez ba\u015flayan cinsi h\u0259yat, erk\u0259n do\u011fu\u015f v\u0259 s. s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259hh\u0259ti il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259ri, psixoloji probleml\u0259r, h\u0259l\u0259 ki \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131na zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. <\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259, burada \u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlisi ayr\u0131lma m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si, erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n qurban\u0131n\u0131n evd\u0259n getm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olmas\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259k qalmas\u0131 deyil, erk\u0259n nikahla ba\u015flayan ail\u0259 hekay\u0259l\u0259ridir ki, burada qad\u0131n yeniyetm\u0259likd\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259hqirl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fir v\u0259 \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu onlara d\u00f6z\u00fcr, sonra da bu ail\u0259 modelini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn cahilliyi, probleml\u0259ri il birlikd\u0259 irs\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131na \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Onlarda da bunun ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 normas\u0131 olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259minlik yaran\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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