{"id":4119,"date":"2017-02-04T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-02-03T20:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/qizlara-isl%c9%99m%c9%99k-olmaz\/"},"modified":"2021-11-05T17:49:14","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T13:49:14","slug":"qizlara-isl%c9%99m%c9%99k-olmaz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jam-news.net\/az\/qizlara-isl%c9%99m%c9%99k-olmaz\/","title":{"rendered":"Q\u0131zlara i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k olmaz"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Sual \u00e7ox sad\u0259 idi: Qaraba\u011fda qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini nec\u0259 hiss edir, onlar\u0131n hans\u0131 h\u00fcquq, imkan v\u0259 perspektivl\u0259ri var?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu suala cavab verm\u0259k is\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 asan olmad\u0131. Amma kontekstin b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bliyin\u0259 baxmayaraq, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif qad\u0131nlar, ki\u015fil\u0259r, h\u0259m\u00e7inin gender siyas\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 cavabdeh olan ekspertl\u0259r v\u0259 r\u0259smi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n sonra bel\u0259 bir n\u0259tic\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131 ki, Qaraba\u011fda qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fi s\u0259liq\u0259li ev, u\u015faqlar v\u0259 \u0259r olmal\u0131d\u0131r. V\u0259ssalam. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Zorak\u0131l\u0131qs\u0131z zorak\u0131l\u0131q<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Qaraba\u011f\u0131n r\u0259smi qurumlar\u0131nda qad\u0131nlar t\u0259msil olunur, b\u0259zil\u0259rind\u0259 is\u0259 saylar\u0131 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7oxdur. Son bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il \u0259rzind\u0259 burada d\u00f6rd xan\u0131m nazir olub (\u015f\u0259h\u0259rsalma, \u0259dliyy\u0259, sosial t\u0259minat v\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 cavabdeh olublar).<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu bir ne\u00e7\u0259 qad\u0131n \u00fczd\u0259 olanlard\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn yerd\u0259 qalan qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 ba\u015fqa qaydalar v\u0259 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Q\u0131zlar\u0131n, xan\u0131mlar\u0131n v\u0259 g\u0259linl\u0259rin ali t\u0259hsil almas\u0131 t\u0259qdir olunand\u0131r, diplomun olmas\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 prestijli say\u0131l\u0131r. Amma gedib i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 tam i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00fcst\u0259lik d\u0259 karyera qurmaq \u2013 bax bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259rd\u0259n icaz\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu icaz\u0259 al\u0131nandan sonra da qad\u0131n anlamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, o \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 evin, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259lidir v\u0259 yaln\u0131z bundan sonra i\u015f v\u0259 karyera il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ola bil\u0259r.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBu c\u00fcr yana\u015fma \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. Amma \u0259ks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar bunu anlam\u0131rlar, \u00e7\u00fcnki zorak\u0131l\u0131q \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri dedikd\u0259 onlar ancaq d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259yi v\u0259 ya q\u0259tl edilm\u0259yi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur, – \u201cQad\u0131n Resurs M\u0259rk\u0259zinin direktoru Qayane Ambartsumyan deyir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qayane dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r ki, ke\u00e7irdiyi diskussiya v\u0259 treninql\u0259r zaman\u0131 ondan t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259r al\u0131rlar: m\u0259g\u0259r zorak\u0131l\u0131q zorlama deyil? V\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259tin n\u0259d\u0259n getdiyini sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r anlamadan \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 etiraf etm\u0259k ist\u0259mir v\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015f\u0259xsin ad\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Qaraba\u011fda qad\u0131nlar\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcrl\u0259r. Tez-tez d\u00f6y\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bu zaman qad\u0131nlar \u0259rl\u0259rinin onlar\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259sin\u0259 b\u0259ra\u0259t qazand\u0131r\u0131rlar, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, kefli olmas\u0131 il\u0259.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u018fks\u0259r vaxtlarda zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 t\u0259krar olunur. V\u0259 tez-tez d\u0259 ail\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcharib\u0259nin \u201cirsi kimi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7irilir, –<\/span><\/p>\n

Respublika Tibb M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu Qeqanu\u015f Safaryan deyir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cM\u00fcharib\u0259 vaxt\u0131 bir \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259r kontuziya ald\u0131. Bu, ikinci tez-tez rast g\u0259lin\u0259n problemdir: onlarda \u0259s\u0259b pozuntular\u0131 ba\u015f verir v\u0259 xan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259r deyil, qaynana t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fcld\u00fcy\u00fc hallar da olur. Stepanakertin \u201cAna v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu \u0130nna Petrosyan bir d\u0259f\u0259 qaynanan\u0131n g\u0259lini psixoloqun ota\u011f\u0131na nec\u0259 it\u0259l\u0259yib sald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unuda bilmir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cO, bizim s\u00f6hb\u0259timizd\u0259 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirdi, t\u0259bii ki, icaz\u0259 verm\u0259dim. Qaynana otaqdan \u00e7\u0131xandan sonra qad\u0131n qay\u0131nanas\u0131n\u0131n onu nec\u0259 aborta m\u0259cbur etdiyini dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131, – \u0130nna Petrosyan deyir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ail\u0259d\u0259 art\u0131q iki q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131 vard\u0131, qay\u0131nana da \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n o\u011flan olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirdi. G\u0259lin d\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259\u00a0 abort el\u0259tdirm\u0259li olub.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ancaq evd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k olar\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Qaraba\u011fda \u0259rin arvad\u0131na i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259diyi xeyli sayda ail\u0259 var.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u018frim i\u015f\u0259 gedir. M\u0259ns\u0259 ev i\u015fl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m. O, m\u0259n\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa icaz\u0259 vermir, – 43 ya\u015fl\u0131 Culyetta dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

35 ya\u015fl\u0131 Armine art\u0131q 20 il\u0259 yax\u0131nd\u0131r ki, \u0259rd\u0259dir, deyir ki, \u0259ri ona c\u0259mi bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verib. \u201c\u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fm\u0131rd\u0131, amma u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259n v\u0259 evin x\u0259rcl\u0259ri artandan sonra o i\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131ma raz\u0131l\u0131q verm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur oldu, ba\u015fqa yolu yoxuydu, onun g\u0259liri kifay\u0259t etmirdi.<\/span><\/p>\n

El\u0259 hallar da olur ki, t\u0259z\u0259 g\u0259lini \u0259r evind\u0259 ya t\u0259hsilini dayand\u0131rma\u011fa, ya da qiyabiy\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r. Bu, g\u0259ncl\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ola-ola evl\u0259n\u0259n zaman daha tez-tez ba\u015f verir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il \u0259vv\u0259l Qaraba\u011fda q\u0259bul olunan qanun 17 v\u0259 h\u0259tta 16 ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n valideynl\u0259rinin v\u0259 ya\u00a0 q\u0259yyumlar\u0131n raz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 v\u0259 ya c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259n birinin 18 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n tamam olmas\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtlil\u0259 nikaha girm\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verir. Bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r ki, respublikada q\u0131zlar\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259bi qurtaran kimi v\u0259 h\u0259tta qurtarmadan atalar\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259rinin q\u0259rar\u0131 il\u0259 t\u0259hsilini yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qoyaraq, \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259si v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti qanunil\u0259\u015fdirilib.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stepanakert Respublika Tibb M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu Qeqanu\u015f Safaryan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ail\u0259 qurandan 4-5 il sonra qad\u0131nlar t\u0259hsil almaq imkan\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum olunmalar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fay\u0131rlar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cTez-tez qad\u0131nlar\u0131n – \u0259rim m\u0259n\u0259 oxuma\u011fa imkan verm\u0259di \u2013 dediyini e\u015fidir\u0259m, – psixoloq deyir. Bu zaman da \u0259lav\u0259 edir ki, bu ail\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n z\u0259r\u0259rsiz t\u0259c\u0259ss\u00fcml\u0259rind\u0259n biridir.<\/span><\/p>\n

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R\u0259hb\u0259r qad\u0131nlar<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Bununla bel\u0259, Qaraba\u011fdak\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin oldu\u011funu dem\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmazd\u0131. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ancaq i\u015f yeri se\u00e7imind\u0259 deyil, y\u00fcks\u0259k v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r tutmas\u0131nda da m\u00fcst\u0259qil oldu\u011fu hallar da az deyil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn Qaraba\u011fda ancaq bir qad\u0131n nazir var. 33 parlament deputat\u0131ndan c\u0259mi 5 n\u0259f\u0259r qad\u0131nd\u0131r. 7 inzibati rayondan he\u00e7 birin\u0259 qad\u0131n ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q etmir. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, bel\u0259 bir \u015fey he\u00e7 vaxt olmay\u0131b da.<\/span><\/p>\n

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